Saturday, December 17, 2011

Two Years Ago Today...

Well, actually, I don't know when the exact date was. Had I known it would be such a milestone, I might have paid attention. I really had no clue.

But two years ago this month, my life changed for the better. Why? Because this handsome, intelligent, silly man - who listens to NPR and BBC in the middle of the night - sent me an IM on FB and said, "if you ever want to talk on the phone, here's my number." Now, if you ask the comedian, he will make up a totally different story. But that is, in fact, how it went down. LOL

Was that our first IM or interaction? Nope. Shoot, we've actually been in the same circles since junior high. We just never hung out directly. So when I got the FB friend request I said, "I know him!" and happily accepted.

At that time, I had just finished my half marathon. He started asking me about running, and we chatted occasionally. And then there were the horrible dating stories. Like the older dude who wanted to meet for lunch at Chik-Fil-A because he was tired of women taking advantage of him. And Ashy Larry, whom I met in my bowling league in ATL. Actually, it was the Ashy Larry story that set everything into motion.

After I posted it, along with a photo of the bootleg birthday "present" he got me, it was LDR who said that all these southern men were messing up and leaving the door open for him to swoop in. I don't think I took him seriously, though.

Then he sent his phone number. We haven't stopped talking since then!

He's the reason that one of the first apps I downloaded on my iPad was NPR. The impetus for me to go harder when I'm ready to give up. My dad really liked him. Always asked about him when we talked. And LDR took to him like they had always known each other. Even spoke at his funeral. He always checks in in my mom and puts up with her antics (those of you on twitter know the stories, lol).

I'm so glad that I chose to let things progress instead of trying to orchestrate my life to the T. The more we talked, I realized how much we thought alike and how wrong I had been, up to that point, about what I thought I needed.

And now, we just need to get to the same city! Can't wait to see what the next two years will bring.

8 comments:

MzInspiredMind81 said...

Happy Anniversary!!!! You and LDR are one of my fav couples! Cheers to two years down and many many many more to go!

P.s. Omg, what was the bootleg gift? I want to laugh!!! LOL

This One Woman said...

I love it!!! Congrats on 2 yrs and here to many more!

Single Ma said...

Awwwww *tears*

Y'all are truly one of my favorite couples!

affectionforfitness said...

Ah, romance. The best kind is just how you describe. Hopefully, you'll end up closer.

:-) Marion

Marilie said...

@mzinspiredmind - check the photo album on FB that says "Ashy Larry's Gift"...lol!

Thanks, everyone! :)

Beautifully Complex said...

This made my heart smile. So happy for your blessings. I pray that an opportunity to be in the same place comes quickly.

kiesh said...

happy anniversary!!

Icey1273 said...

Man I LOVE love! Happy Anniversary!